Gay Telegram Groups (18+)
18+ gay groups for chat, friendship, flirting and meetups between men.
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Real American Gay Stuff
Large chat for gay and bi men in the United States with nearly two thousand members. Adults only, with plenty of people online.3Perth Man2Man 18+
Small group for gay and bi men in Perth. Adults only, aimed at local chat and meeting.3Kingston Ontario Gay Klub
LGBTQ+ community chat for adults in Kingston, Ontario. The admins enforce a strict 18+ rule, respect for privacy and no spam. Come say hi and meet locals.CanadianGay
Chat for gay and bi men across Canada, with visitors from abroad welcome too. The admins keep it social rather than a hookup board and ban anyone under 19. Be friendly and keep personal talk to private messages.+10
The Rabbit Hole Events
Announcement channel for an LGBTQ+ party collective in Seattle. Subscribers get dates, themes and RSVP calls for each event. Every night is strictly 21 and over.
336 and Surrounding Gay Men
Local chat for gay, bi and discreet men in the 336 area code of North Carolina, covering Greensboro, Winston-Salem and nearby towns. Guys use it to talk and set up meets. Adults only.
Gay Chat Canada
Channel bringing together gay and bi men in Canada. Use it to find people in your province and chat with the community. Members must be adults.
Australian Gays
A nationwide channel for gay men around Australia, from Sydney and Melbourne to Brisbane and Perth. Handy for finding other guys and local chats. Adults only.
442 Events
San Francisco channel announcing weekly men's parties for gay, bi and curious guys. Follow it for the calendar of themed nights in the city. 18+ only.
Houston Queerspace Chat
An open chat for the queer community in Houston, Texas, with a few hundred members. People come here to make friends, share local plans and find their people in the city. Adult members only.What A Freaky Night (Chicago)
Chicago group linked to a party series for LGBTQ people and the folks who admire them. Members chat, plan nights out and meet others from the local queer scene. 18+ only.
Lodge NY Sex Parties
Announcement channel for a men's party series in New York City. Gay and bi guys follow it to see dates and venues for upcoming nights. Adults only.Toronto Gay
Small local chat for gay men living in or visiting Toronto. Good for finding company in the city without relying on dating apps. Adults only, respect required.+20
Canadian Gay Chat
A Telegram chat for gay and bi men across Canada. Members use it to meet people in their province, make friends and set up dates. Adults 18+ only.GAY Thailand Chat: Telegram group for gay men across Thailand
Bangkok, Chiang Mai, Phuket, Pattaya and everywhere in between: GAY Thailand Chat is a Telegram group of almost three thousand members for gay men living in or travelling through Thailand. The chat can be a practical place to ask about neighbourhoods, bars and events, find travel buddies, make friends and, if the chemistry is there, set up dates. The group description is minimal, so read the recent messages first to get the tone. Introduce yourself with the city you are in and how long you are staying. Ask before messaging privately, never share other people's photos, and meet new contacts in public first. For adult men 18+ only.Guys in Pattaya: gay chat for men in Pattaya, Thailand
A Telegram chat for gay guys in Pattaya, and only Pattaya. Around two thousand three hundred members use it to talk about the city, meet other men, find good bars and beaches and plan nights out. It is useful both for people living in Pattaya and for visitors who want local tips before they arrive. The chat is in English. One rule to know in advance: if you leave the group you will be banned, so join only if you mean to stay. There is also a main chat linked in the description for wider Thailand conversation. Stay safe when meeting people: chat first, meet in public places and be careful with drinks. Adults 18+ only.
International Gay Chatting LGBTQ+: worldwide chat with 4,000 members
International Gay Chatting LGBTQ+ describes itself as a space dedicated to promoting equality, human rights and social inclusion for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer people worldwide. In practice it is a busy Telegram chat of around four thousand members. The hashtags point to the US and other countries, and English is the common language. You will find casual conversation, people looking for friends abroad, travel questions, news about LGBTQ rights and a bit of flirting. Make the most of it: 1. Say where you are from when you introduce yourself. 2. Keep it respectful, especially when topics get political. 3. DM only with permission. 4. Do not share anyone's photos or personal details. For adults 18 and over.+262Gay Exhib Hot Guys: Telegram chat for gay exhibitionists, video calls and conversation
Some men enjoy being seen. This Telegram group is aimed at gay and bi guys who like exhibitionism in a consensual setting: chatting, sharing their own pictures and joining voice or video calls with others who are into the same thing. The rules are refreshingly specific. Conversation should be in English as much as possible, so everyone can participate. Be nice, because complaints can lead to a ban. And there is zero tolerance for anything involving minors or for advertising; violators are banned and blocked. A few points to keep it healthy: Only share images of yourself, never of anyone else. Ask before sending private material to an individual. Remember that anything sent online can be saved, so keep your face and identifying details out if you value discretion. Strictly for adults aged 18 and above. It is a niche space, smaller than general gay chats, which tends to make it more friendly and focused.3
Delhi Gay Group: chill and inclusive Telegram chat for LGBTQ people in Delhi NCR
Chill, inclusive and polite. Those are the three words that best describe what the admins of this Delhi Gay Group ask for. It is a Telegram chat for LGBTQ+ people and allies in Delhi NCR, with a focus on gay and bi men, where you can talk, share memes and make friends. This is a smaller and more relaxed group than some of the giant national chats, which can be an advantage: conversations are easier to follow and regulars get to know each other. Members are spread across Delhi, Noida, Gurugram, Faridabad and Ghaziabad, so local meetups for coffee or a walk are realistic. The one rule highlighted in the description, just be polite, covers most situations. Add to that the usual good sense: ask before private messages, never share other members' photos or contact details, and do not promote paid services. If you are new to the city, newly out, or simply want a friendly Delhi based gay chat that is not only about hookups, this group is worth joining. Adults 18 and older only.
Mumbai Gay Hub: Telegram group for gay men in Mumbai, Thane and Navi Mumbai
Mumbai Gay Hub is a city group, plain and simple. The admins say it is for gay men in Mumbai and nearby areas only, so the people you meet here are likely to be a local train ride away rather than across the country. Rules are posted right in the group description and they are strict: no incest content, no child abuse material of any kind, no abuse, no homophobia and no marketing. Breaking them gets you removed. For a large metropolitan chat, that zero tolerance approach is a good sign. Inside, conversation moves fast. People talk about weekend plans, queer friendly cafés and events, gym and fitness, work life in the city, and dating. Many members are discreet, so respect for privacy is part of the culture. Thane, Navi Mumbai, Andheri, Bandra or South Bombay: mention your area when you say hello. Quick checklist: Be respectful. Ask before DMs. Do not post screenshots or anyone else's pictures. Meet in public first. Adults 18+ only.+126
South India Tamil Gay Group: Telegram community for Tamil gay and bi men
Vanakkam. This Telegram group gathers Tamil speaking gay and bi men from Chennai, Coimbatore, Madurai, Trichy, Salem and the rest of Tamil Nadu, along with the Tamil diaspora abroad. The description is written in Tamil and promises a safe, friendly and respectful gay group where everyone can express themselves freely, with room for friendship, conversation and support. Day to day, members talk about Kollywood, food, work, relationships and the challenge of being gay in a family oriented culture. Flirting and dating happen as well, naturally, but the group is not only about that. Language tip: Tamil is the main language, Tanglish is everywhere, and English is fine too. If you are from a specific city, say it in your intro so nearby members can reach out. House rules worth following: be kind, ask before sending private messages, never share anybody's photos or phone numbers, and report fake profiles or people pushing paid services. Strictly adults 18+.6+103
Rajasthan Gay Group: Telegram chat for gay men in Jaipur, Jodhpur, Udaipur and Ajmer
Jaipur, Jodhpur, Udaipur, Ajmer: the group welcome message lists them one after another, followed by a line in Hindi about every heart finding a sense of belonging. That sums up what this Telegram chat offers to gay and bi men across Rajasthan. It is a state-level community, which means you can talk with people from the Pink City as easily as with someone from Bikaner or Kota. Expect Hindi, Rajasthani expressions and English all in the same thread. Topics are wide: friendship, dating, festivals, travel within the state, family expectations and the small daily wins of living as a gay man in a traditional region. How to get the most out of it Introduce yourself with your city. Join conversations before asking for private chats. Keep your own privacy in mind and do not share personal documents or addresses. Respect a no. Never post images of anyone else. Rajasthan Gay Group is intended only for adults aged 18 and above. If you have been searching for a local gay community in Rajasthan that is active and welcoming, this is worth a look.+138
Punjab Haryana Gay Zone: friendly Telegram group for gay and bi men in North India
Sat Sri Akal and welcome. Punjab Haryana Gay Zone is a regional Telegram group for gay, bi and other LGBTQ+ men from Punjab, Haryana and Chandigarh, plus those who grew up there and moved away. The admins call it a friendly space for brothers, and that tone is noticeable. Members chat in Punjabi, Hindi and English about everyday life, cricket, music, food, the pressure of marriage questions at family functions, and how to meet people without risking one's privacy. Dating and flirting are part of the mix, but so is plain friendship. A regional focus matters in North India, where many men are not out and prefer to connect quietly with people nearby. In this group you can say you are from Ludhiana, Amritsar, Jalandhar, Patiala, Gurugram, Rohtak or Panipat and quickly find someone close. Before you post, keep three things in mind. Respect privacy: no screenshots, no sharing anyone's face or number. Ask before private messages. Report spam or anyone offering paid services. The group is for adults 18+ only.+140Page 1Next
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18+ gay groups for chat, friendship, flirting and meetups between men.
Gay, lesbian, bi and trans groups for adults: friendship, flirting and conversation in a space made for the LGBTQ+ community.
Telegram has 18+ groups and channels: in groups everyone chats; in channels only admins post. t.me invites open straight in the app, and Telegram groups can hold far more members than WhatsApp groups.