
18+ WhatsApp & Telegram Groups in London, United Kingdom
Groups of people from London and nearby to chat, flirt and meet other adults. Every group is reviewed by moderators; read the rules before joining.
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London Polyamory: community chat with events and resources
London Polyamory is a Telegram group of around four hundred people practising or exploring ethical non-monogamy in London. What makes it useful is the structure around the chat. The group pins a resources page, an ENM events calendar you can subscribe to, a separate invite page where new members request access with admin approval, and a list of therapists and coaches who work with open relationships. So beyond conversation, you get a practical way to find socials, discussion nights and meetups across the city. Newcomers can ask basic questions; long-time polyamorous people can share what has worked for them. Be kind, respect each person's boundaries and relationship agreements, and ask before messaging anyone privately. Adults 18+ only.
London Fetish and Kink: LGBTQ+ community group for the London fetish scene
Run by the community, for the community. That is how London Fetish and Kink presents itself, and it is a fair summary of a Telegram group that brings together the many fetish sub scenes of London into one LGBTQ+ space. It has close to five hundred members and a high share of them online at once, which keeps the chat busy. London's kink world is huge but fragmented. Leather, rubber, sports gear, pup play, bondage, uniform and many other scenes each have their own events and venues. This group aims to be the place where they overlap, a big family rather than a set of separate cliques. For anyone new to the city, or new to fetish, that makes it a very useful starting point. What it is good for Hearing about club nights and community events. Finding someone to go with to your first fetish party. Asking which venues are friendly to newcomers. Getting tips on dress codes, etiquette and safety. Meeting people whose interests overlap with yours. Because it is an LGBTQ+ space, respect for every identity is part of the deal. Treat people's pronouns, bodies and boundaries with care, and do not assume that interest in a fetish means interest in you. Good practice for joining Read the pinned messages. Say hello in the main chat before sliding into anyone's DMs. If you meet someone from the group, choose a public place first or meet at an event. And remember that consent can be withdrawn at any point. One more thing that sets this group apart is its inclusive spirit across fetishes. A newcomer into rubber can end up chatting with someone from the leather scene, a pup can meet a rigger, and someone just curious can learn from all of them. That kind of crossover is rare in a city where scenes tend to keep to themselves, and it is part of why the group grows mostly through recommendations from existing members. Bring curiosity and kindness, and you will probably find your corner of the community quickly. If you are looking for a gay group or kink community in London that feels social rather than transactional, this is a strong option.+21